I am all about the techniques, the positions and the methods to giving blowjobs. But I have to tell you – you don’t need any of them to give a really great blow job.

If you are nervous about giving head – or if you are worried that you aren’t going to do it right – or if you want to give better head then I’m going to tell you one thing that NO OTHER magazine article and NO OTHER sex expert will ever tell you…

Forget about techniques and positions and styles – just become sensual.

Maybe drink a glass or two of wine to relax, smoke a joint, go for a long walk, take a long bubble bath – just do whatever it takes to make yourself feel a little relaxed and a little more sexual.

Then you are going to need some foreplay – kissing, cuddling, flirting, dirty talk – get yourself worked up along with your partner… 

THE MAIN THING THAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS MAKE YOURSELF FEEL SEXY

I know it sound crazy, but the more confident and sexy you feel the more fun you both are going to have.

Once you are a little relaxed, a lot turned on and feeling like you are a sexual goddess… then its time to get to work.

Get into a comfortable position where you can stay for a while (my personal favorite is him laying on his back and me on my knees BESIDE him (not 69 but almost) I can give a great blow job for a long time and he can use his fingers to play with me).

Now just go to town – Do whatever you want. What feels natural. Just get into it and enjoy giving him a blowjob. Make it messy, make it fun and don’t even worry about making him cum right now… just play and suck and stroke and try.

There are only 2 rules that you MUST stick to- don’t be mean to his balls and don’t bite or use your teeth. Other than that… just do what you want to.

If you are truly feeling comfortable with him and yourself… and if you are truly feeling sexual and sensual… then you two are going to have a nice, long, fun and very rememberable time.

Sandy Myers
The Blow Job Queen
www.howtogiveheadblowjob.com