The subject of sex has always fascinated me. I always read the dirtiest articles in my aunt’s cosmos before I ever knew what 1/2 of it was, I sneaked peaks at my father’s playboys and I got caught playing “I’ll show you mine if…” a time or two.

So naturally, I enjoyed sex when I grew up and started doing it.

And almost instinctively I was a little advertourus and wanted to try a bunch of different things. And I wanted to become a better lover too. I asked questions and requested feedback and read articles and all that good stuff.

But lately… now that I am quickly watching my 20s fade behind me and now that I am in the longest running relationship of my life (1.6 years) I am noticing that the sex is starting to become a little too mechanical… like too much of the focus is on technique. Like all I ever think of is action and reaction.

Of course, I know I’m good in bed… that isn’t the problem at all. My sex life is good, it’s just that I got all the technical stuff down… I want to get into some of that David Bowe-type shit.

So because of this I have decided than I am going to learn how to become a more sensual lover. And on top of leaving tips about blowjobs I am also going to be reporting back any intresting, helpful or wacky information that I discover in this new little journey I’m about to take.

And I would love any articles, websites, etc. etc. that you want to reccomend – just PLEASE make sure that your suggestions don’t suck.

So… are you wondering why I titled this post “Sex Expert? Is There Really Such A Thing Anyway?” Probably not, but I’m goign to tell you anyway.

The more I run this blog the more that I start to realise that I don’t know as much as I thought I did. I mean, I have the basics down but I want to know more.

I realised that I am not, in fact, a sex expert. I’m just a regular girl with a curious mind.

And then I though… is there really such a thing as a sex expert?

What? you were expecting something deeper? I was high when I had that little inner-questioning so just roll with it.

And sex expert or not… I’m still keeping the title of “Blow-Job Queen”

Sandy Myers
The Blow Job Queen
www.howtogiveheadblowjob.com